My girlfriend (of half a year) and I also get on fine for the most part

This dilemma is actually her male buddy

She’s known he for approximately 5 or 6 age. I’ve satisfied him once or twice in which he may seem like a nice chap. But the problem is their call level was beyond the thing I consider regular for a male/female friendship or any relationship for that matter. As much as I can tell he text messages my personal sweetheart every day, little flirty, only “how’s your entire day going” particular thing. At night my sweetheart continues and you may promises these include chatting. Shee posts a comment on **, the guy likes it instantly, she alters a profile visualize, or brings some pictures, he’s busy instantaneously liking things. (we dont live collectively, but I do determine these things).

You will find noticed them together and seen the strange message they send, it seems all childish communication, many smiley confronts for every little thing. I would personally consider this guy is homosexual if I didn’t know better. He has got never really had a girlfriend, and then he cannot caused by rigid spiritual parents. I believe like my girl try his alternative gf.

Before we began dating my sweetheart, I realized the woman quickly and spotted that a man was actually messaging her a whole lot (this person), we interrogate this lady once we decided to starting matchmaking, she stated this guy is/was/ and can merely ever become a pal and is grossed out-by the suggestion.

As soon as we started internet dating, they spotted each other about once per week, typically by yourself or with many of their male pals. (who are today the girl company) even as we got more severe they read one another now about once every 3 months. Their usually public configurations, but he is definitely taking the lady some place remarkable. My personal girl has begun to entail me personally most among the circumstances with this specific guy. But, she claims she additionally desires the girl away from me energy with pals which I understand. I like my energy aside too. However, he attracts the lady to simply “hang aside” after that states “hey we are going sky-diving.” I feel like We contend with he to bring my personal girlfriend anywhere brand new or great. We be concerned each day about in which he or she is planning to need the lady after that as this was stuff I would like to share with my personal lady. My personal girl simply says that we does it together another time and that their no big issue. But Im consistently attempting to think about points that i wish to create and tell my gf beforehand because certain as things he will probably be wanting to capture my girlfriend to that particular newer tv series, motion picture etc.

I don’t self male feminine friendship, i’ve female buddies, but I actually do not speak to all of them several times a day. These are typically as well near for my preference. My personal gf renders me no. 1, we come across one another almost every day (we dont live together), talk on the phone each night. but I feel along these lines chap was a pest. I just realize when she actually is beside me the majority of the day there’s a note sitting inside her telephone with this guy.

I told my personal girlfriend this person does not sit right with me. My girl says, these are typically friends and that is they.

My personal sweetheart believes there’s no difficulty and therefore I am worrying about absolutely nothing. But in my experience this difficulty that needs correcting, I am simply looking forward to him to find a holiday on her behalf to be on. How does my girlfriend and I also see at the center with this?